NOTE: THIS POST IS BASE ON MY PERSONAL OPINION. AND IT'S GONNA BE A LONGLONG POST.
Question yourself, do you about how people look at you?
do you dress/talk/walk/eat/dance/smile/act/laugh/react up to peoples expectation?
do you? are you actually who are you?
are you who the great I am says you are?
guys, text will be in BLUE
girls, text will be in PURPLE
for both, text will be in BLACKdo you bother about how you look to others?be it if you're fat/thin/tall/short/small/bigdo you actually bother about what people think of you?do you dress to make people happy?do you talk or walk to make people feel happy?if you do feel this way or somewhat somehow feel this way,this post is for you.well, i can simply say.be yourself, don't be shy don't be afraid.dress how you wanna dress, don't restrict yourself.it's your choice it's your style.why bother about how others think or feel.as long as you know what you're doing, it's fine.why dress to impress human, why dress to please people.then you may ask.but, how about people who judge people?1 word for them.SHALLOW.to me, people these day, people are not as shallow as the past anymore.does not mean by showing a little more of your shoulder makes you a hooker or a prostitute.maybe people of the past may feel this way, actually even my grandparents don't complain or scold when i wear a halter. why? cause they know does not mean i wear it makes me a hooker or anything else.it's how you carry yourself and not what you wear.be yourself! be who you really are! don't be afraid to express who you are in the way you dress!if you are one who judges people base on their looks, i'm sorry but you're shallow.how about people who hugs and kisses?meet your friends and give a hug?meet you friends and give a kiss?does it mean, you guys have SOMETHING GOING ON.well, if thats really true.i think i'm like, TERRIBLEEEE.i hug every friend i meet be it male or female.i give pecks on the cheeks to my girlfriends.
and come on! i've got guy friends who gives hugs and kisses to each other even!
but hellllllllo, some of them are attached already! does that make them gayy???
noo, they still love their girlfriends deeply!a hug does not mean there is something going on, a kiss does not mean there is something going on.please don't be soooo shallow to think that a hug and a kiss means the person is all sick in the mind and stuff. please. thats soooo passé.girls? you may put make up to make yourself prettier. (i use prettier, cause all girls are pretty!)while some girls puts make up to enhance features.it's OKAY to put make up, it's personal opinion.does not mean if you put make up means you're ugly without make up.for me personally, i only put foundation and mascara.why? i like things natural. thats all.i only use eyeliner on days that i look pale or sick. or i just feel like putting.but does that mean that i'm a fake? i don't think i look pretty enough without make up on? noooo. i still feel the same!i am just way too lazy to put too much make up on.cause i hate removing make up. haha.but still! there is nothing wrong, i'm not saying this just cause me myself put make up. but well, for girls who felt that without make up you look ugly. thats totally wrong. every girl has her own beauty. so what if you don't have the look? but i believe you're got the heart.people these days looks at the heart and now the outside.but of course this does not means you totally don't care about how you look.keeping yourself neat and presentable is something important too!!and for the christians, does not mean you know God loves you, and you've got God and you totally don't bother about yourself, like how you look.i know like i said before, be yourself and stuff, don't bother about how people look at you. but at the same time, don't you think you wanna look neat? proper? presentable?thats to me lah, i felt that all girls should look good, neat and presentable. and not like anyhow dress and stuff. though to you it's like, I DON'T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF ME. yeah. but remember, there are still shallow people around! haha. it's hard for me to put in words, but i hope you get it. and like not think i'm like, contradicting myself. yup.GUYSGUYS!well, if you did not bother reading the PURPLE text, well cause it's for girls. but if you read it, then good. HAHAHHA.anyway, CARRY ON!although i personally don't like guys to wear skinnies with flip flops.but well! some still do look nice man.it's all about presenting yourself and the way you walk.true?yeah, i mean, i always see ahbengs wearing flip flops with SUPER SKINNIES and like, a tee and BLONDEEEE BLEACHHHHED hair, with 101 piercing.CANNOT TANK LOR.okay, besides that, i've seen guys who wear flip flop with slippers before, and they look FREAKING GOOD! it's how they present themselves i guess.slippers ahbeng. HEHE. okay don't be mean vanns.aiyah, i guess there is a VERYYY fine line between AHBENG and GUYS.i know they are both guys! but like, you know.beng beng and like normal guys who are not bengs.i felt that line is WAY TOO FINE. seriously.guys tried clothes, comes out of the fitting room and ask.guy: nice or not?friends: WAHLAUEH, MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE AHBENG!guy: EEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWW, I'M NOT GETTING IT!okay, this is usually the case i guess.sad right? but well. be who you are luh.i admit! i do say that! hahaha. but at the end of the day? it's still yourself man, be yourself.it's actually not about the clothes, but about YOU.get a ahbeng to wear a a plain tee with skinnies.and a non-ahbeng to wear a plain tee with skinnies.ACTUALLY! this is what guys wear right?skinnies/jeans/berms. tees/polo/shirt.they can wear EXCATLY the same thing, but, ahbeng still will look ahbeng and guy will not look ahbeng.why? look at how ahbengs present themselves.TOTALLY DIFFERNT.the way they talk? also different.but that does not mean thay ahbengs are bad people. they are actually nice and loyal friends.very JIANG YI QI.yeah. sooo, DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE BY THEIR COVER! SEEE!! AH BENGS ARE NICE PEOPLE ALSO YOU KNOW.there is nothing much for me to say about guys cause either i know nuts OR there is really nothing to say besides dressing and presenting yourself.
like i said, presentable.
presnting yourself is VERY important you know? it is something vital. it tells alot of you. it is not juding you, but tells alot about you.
i'm using myself as the experiment.
say, you go your friends house. and find that your friend's parents are home.
me: hello auntie hello uncle. -don't smile just greet in a veryyyy gloomy and like without respect-
parent: hi. -gives a very fake smile-
me: Hello auntie! hello uncle! ((:
parents: hello. what's your name?
and after a few hours. when yo're about to go home.
me: bye auntie bye uncle. -turns around and walk off-
parents: okay. -nods-
me: auntie uncle i go off first okay? bye bye. thanks!
parents: oh, not staying for dinner ah?
me: oh, sorry but i can't. gotta go home for dinner(:
parents: okay okay, take care okay? byebye.
me: i will(: thank you!
see the difference? in presenting yourself?
leaving a good impression?
thats veyr important to me.
impression is something very important.
okay, juding a person.
wanna say something about someone?
say it only AFTER YOU'VE MET THEM, OR TALK TO THEM.
if not, it's simply judging them base on their looks. which is like, gross.
okay, watched the show INITIAL D!?
the jay chou show? the car race thing?
if you have GOOD.
see that Jay Chou's car is just a Toyota Corolla AE86.
and he competed with? Mazda Rx 7
in the end, who won?
did a car that looks REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLY good won?
or did a car, which don't look good.
if you just base on the outside, if you don't watch the show, just show you 2 cars.
who do you think will win?
Toyota Corolla AE86 or Mazda Rx 7
many will say MAZDA LAH STUPID. LOOK SO PRO AND NICE. SO SLEEK.
but look in the end, who won?
it's the Toyota Corolla AE86.
so to everyone, it's not about the looks.
looks don't bring you far.
but that does not mean people who looks good means they are loser.
having looks and wining is just a bonus.
it's not about the looks.
it's bout the heart. the inside.
JUDGING PEOPLE WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW THEM, WHEN YOU DON'T EVEN MAKE AN EFFORT TO TALK TO THEM TO GET TO KNOW THEM IS LIKE, GROSS.
God did not JUDGE people base on their LOOKS.
if God did not judge people that includes you, base on how you dress and your looks.
i don't see why anyone can judge people base on their looks.
girls, you're pretty in many many ways. it does not need to be based on your face. just be yourself.
guys, though i really DON'T KNOW, what to say. but i felt, be yourself too. don't care about what people say.
i dress to what i want to.
i am who i am.
no one can change me except God.
be yourself, and not what others want you to be.